Finding Kin  ·  findingkin.live

Has geography scattered
your village?
We're gathering
it back.

Seniors with wisdom to give. Families raising children alone. New believers hungry to see faith lived out. Three groups. One wound. One relationship that heals all three.

Find your place
The Senior
Wisdom earned. Ready to give.
Decades of lived experience — no longer on the shelf.
+ doing life together +
The Family
Raising kids without a village.
Far from family. Needing presence, not just advice.
+ doing life together +
The New Believer
Learning faith. Hungry to see it lived.
Beyond attendance. Wanting to see what it actually looks like.

Three groups.
One wound.

The cultural fractures you're feeling aren't separate problems. They are one wound with three symptoms — and the same relationship heals all three at once.

Seniors feel discarded.

Decades of wisdom, experience, and love — sitting unused. Nobody's asking for it anymore.

Families are exhausted.

Raising children far from family, without the village that used to surround every home.

New believers are adrift.

Attending, taking notes, going home unchanged. Discipleship reduced to information.

What a Kin Group is

One senior. One family.
One new believer.

A Kin Group is exactly that — one senior or couple, one family with children, and one newer believer or couple, doing life together. Not a program. Not a small group with a workbook. A relationship with no expiration date.

The Senior
Wisdom, steadiness, the long view
Decades of lived faith. Hard seasons navigated. The kind of presence that only comes from someone who has been through it and held on.
What they receive
Purpose. Belonging. The energy of children. The honest questions of a new believer that rekindle wonder.
The Family
Life, energy, a home to gather in
Children who fill a room. Everyday moments that give the Kin Group its realness. The gift of belonging to something growing.
What they receive
A grandparent figure nearby. Wisdom for seasons ahead. A fellow traveler in faith asking the same questions.
The New Believer
Fresh eyes, honest questions, new hunger
The questions long-time believers have stopped asking. A wonder that reminds everyone why faith matters in the first place.
What they receive
Faith lived in real life — not performed. A senior who has held on through hard seasons. A family that lets you belong before you have it figured out.

About
the founder


Donald Wickham Sr.
Encourager  ·  Life & Business Coach  ·  Builder

For 57 years I've been building things — software, homes, businesses, and a marriage that has lasted 58 years. I've been a pastor, a coach, a real estate investor, and for the past decade, a full-time caregiver for my wife Pam. I know what it means to show up when it costs something.

Three ideas rattled around in my heart for years — Borrowed Grandparents, Boomer Battalion, Practical Kingdom Living. I couldn't shake them. It took an honest look at my own story to see that they weren't three separate ideas. They were one vision. And my own life was the proof of concept.

"Building ways to connect discarded seniors, exhausted families, and adrift new believers into real, Kingdom relationships that share wisdom, support, and practical discipleship in everyday life."

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